Moving Day: Helping a Loved One Settle into Memory Care
Moving a loved one into memory care is a big step, and it’s normal to feel a mix of relief, sadness and worry. With some planning, you can make the transition smoother for everyone.
Before the move
- Share their story. Tell the care team about your loved one’s history, routines, favorite foods, music, hobbies and what comforts them when they’re upset.
- Bring familiar things. Their own bedspread, favorite chair, family photos and a few treasured items help a new room feel like home.
- Label clothing and pack comfortable, easy-to-wear outfits.
- Gather paperwork, including a medication list, doctor information, insurance cards and legal documents.
Should you tell them in advance?
Every person is different. For some, talking about the move early helps. For others, it causes days of worry. Many families find it best to keep the explanation simple and positive, close to moving day. Ask the care team for advice based on your loved one’s personality.
On moving day
- Try to schedule the move for your loved one’s best time of day.
- Set up the room ahead of time, so it’s ready when they arrive.
- Stay calm and reassuring; your loved one will pick up on your mood.
- Let staff help with the transition, such as inviting your loved one to lunch or an activity while you finish unpacking.
The first few weeks
Adjustment takes time, often several weeks. Your loved one may ask to go home or seem unsettled at first. That’s normal. Stay in touch with staff, who can tell you how things are going. Some homes suggest shorter visits at first while your loved one gets used to new routines.
Take care of yourself
Many families feel guilt after a move. Remember that choosing memory care is a way of making sure your loved one is safe and well cared for, and it gives you the chance to simply be family again.
Have questions about memory care for someone you love? Call Generations Senior Living at (352) 474-2696 or schedule a tour of one of our three homes near The Villages.
